Either way - You Will Be The Best

The quest for the best is always embedded in us.

But the definition of being the best is different for everyone. Here I am going to explain two aspects of being the best.

1. Those who are best for others

I must say they are really very sweet people..they don't even know that they are really best.

Give everything you have in you ..who is dedicated towards everyone without any/few expectations which are favourable or capable of being fulfilled by others.

Now the question arises ..Do they think why they are doing so?

May be Yes ,may be No.

If yes ,then .do they think about themselves for once?

If Yes...then why do they accept those desires of others' which are against their will?

The answer is clear..they think about others more than their own.

And those who accept everything without any thought are really venerable.

These kind of people forget their longings, volition ,dreams and expectations.

There are numerous examples of people who are only dedicated towards their family or profession or society.

Don't you think how it feels when they reach that position of the philanthropist who is always ready to give themselves. 

I think it will be the best feeling when they look back and feel that others feel glad for them that for someone they did as per their volition.

But have anyone ever thought what they loose?

I think they loose their personal desires and dreams.

Now the dreams can be as adventurous as climbing a mountain or as simple as being lost in the woods or to leave everything to find the contentment and peace . While becoming the one who is best for other's is a different kind of satisfaction but at a point of time when they were in the midst of what they have lost and what they will gain due to that is really insurmountable.

They become frustrated ,the longings for what they have lost increases day by day, they relate everything around them with that and when they find that others are enjoying the same what remains only a dream for them is really very painful.

Now it doesn't occur spontaneously that they suddenly start realising the loss or gain. There is a process behind that realisation. When they doesn't get any appreciation for their generosity ,when they realise their potential and when their inner voice starts cursing them for the loss.

If we cite example for this kind of people Mothers are the suitable one for this.

2. Those who are best for themselves.

We can call them rebel in general. They seem to be selfish ,yet they really are. For those whose personal volition is their first priority fall under this very group. They don't care about others ,they live their life the way they want. 

Does they loose anything?

Yes ,they do 

Everyone thinks that they are arrogant, selfish and self-centric.

At every point they are forced to prove themselves. Isn't it vexing?

Well , I don't think they loose much because lack of being praised in front of everyone gets satiated when they reach where they always dreamt of. By the way they get the appraisals as well later on with compound interests. They become example for many.

That's a different thing that both positive and negative examples fall under this very group.

Positive are those who have really achieved something which is beneficial for them as well as for society. And those who couldn't get what they were seeking for and are blamed for their goofy act sets the negative example.

I couldn't draw a conclusion regarding these two groups that which one is right to choose but those who believe that they can give themselves in every possible way whether it be of their choice or not are Saint in a way and we should respect them..

and those who are not capable of tolerating the pain of loosing the opportunities should never ever leave their decisions to others. They should fight and accept the challenges to get what they want to pursue and how they want to pursue.

Also .. nobody's is having any right to blame anyone because you have choosen your way on your own, if you could prove yourself (to yourself ) you are the best. 

It's your choice to be the best for outside world or the world embedded in you, either way you will the best.

                                -   By Saumya bhatt