Life's little notes...

We have syllabus for every exams, rituals for every religion, religious books to acquire knowledge. But what about life? How to lead a life without any syllabus ... life is an ongoing exam at every step. We don't have any syllabus, we don't have books, then how we could excel? How we can score good marks?

I think certain notes will be helpful to fetch at least passing marks. Isn't it? 
Here are some notes which one should always keep in mind. As there are different authors of the same book here also we can have one...but as certain things are mentioned in the same way in every book, we can also follow these certain notes.
And if you get the chance to read really great authors for leading life in a proper way, go through them as soon as possible with utmost dedication.
Here are some notes which would be helpful for everyone.

1. Be kind towards everyone - I think kindness is the unlimited treasure we all have in ourselves , we have to just use it often without any discrimination. Kindness is not about gaining returns it's just  generosity. 

2. Never expect anything from anyone but do care about others' expectations - May be it will try to help you to get your expectations fulfilled in a way. Always try to give everything you have (not talking about materialistic things but your care, kindness, love, happiness)

3. Think about others' feelings and emotions- most of us generally don't pay any attention towards the feelings of other person ,we all are busy to get attention from everyone. May be things which are trifling for you ,can be highly relevant for the other..may be it will hurt them.

4. Be serious towards relationships. Relationship is not a joke, we should think about each other before moving a step ahead towards any relationship. We must think about the future as well , because it's not a game. Feelings are the most phenomenal thing we humans possess. If feelings were not there , may be most of the problems won't arise but since it's not possible we must care about this very precious thing which makes us human. 

 

5. Confess the right or wrong - if you think something is right or wrong it doesn't mean that really it is. There always prevails the possibility of being wrong, so don't confide wrong things, if you do so then make yourself courageous enough to accept also. And if you are right then you know what you have to do. But sometimes despite being right we are forced not to say, forced by love towards that person, forced by power or forced by our conscience when we prefer not to say. Now in this situation we need to act accordingly like if we want to save our relationships then we can sometimes accept the things which are not right for us. Being right or wrong, it all depends on the perspective of people. Something which is wrong for you, can be right for the other. Think with others' perspective as well.

6. Don't forget yourself - in this era of relationship and friendship we usually forget ourselves ,either we want to be like someone cuz we admire them upto that limit where we start forgetting ourselves. You in your original form is the best version of yourself. We can improve ourselves by acquiring any hobby or quality which is good for us . But never adopt habits and hobbies which may be devastating for you. 

7. Believe in yourself - nobody knows you more than you yourself ..right? Absolutely right. When you know yourself then believing in yourself isn't a big thing ,in fact it must be instilled in us. You know your true potential ,you know what you can do and what you cannot do. And it isn't shameful at all to accept the things you can't do perfectly and we are well aware of the fact that nobody's perfect. Neither overestimate yourself nor underestimate. But do believe  yourself always.

8. Inculcate and introspect- it's easier to read and watch 100s of motivational articles and videos to keep yourself up for hardly 10 -12 days. Inculcate what you watch and read for long lasting effects. Introspection helps you to question yourself when you are wrong and when you are right. You can hide your emotions and feelings from others but you can't hide it from yourself . We generally forget to ask ourselves the questions of which we are seeking answers from others or on which we depend on others . They don't know you the way you know yourself. Introspect at times to provide the accurate report card to yourself.

The most important point in this whole blog is the last one INCULCATE and INTROSPECT because it is the only way to remember these little notes of life.