Priority which means, the fact or condition of being regarded or treated as more important than others.
There is a minute difference in being prioritise to one's own self and to expect being prioritised by others, but it makes an abyss altogether.
While prioritising yourself the focus is to improve your qualities, to sharpen your hobbies, to give yourself more time and to sort out the things you have to do in order of your priorities to get the maximum satisfaction and positive results for your growth and happiness. Believe it or not but your real happiness ultimately depends on the actions you do in your day to day life.
By prioritising yourself you give yourself more importance which is the most basic and important thing one should definitely do. An individual possess enormous capabilities and potential and we all know this very well as we daily come across through innumerable examples. When a single person can perform so many activities then do we need to prioritise others over ourselves? Rather we should prioritise our own self first in respect of our activities, skills and need of the time.
It's just same as competing yourself with someone else or competing with the exam, be it physical or written. In this scenario one would definitely choose to compete with the exam, apply the same in prioritising yourself. You have a vast syllabus to complete for the exam so as in priority list you have to cover everything which makes you better every day.
But there is a run time bug which keeps you drifting away from completion which is "expectation" from others to prioritise you as you did so much to improve yourself, to establish that importance of yourself. This small bug which is unavoidable will always keep you drifting until and unless you understand the minute error.
While prioritising yourself in respect of your own actions you give an edge to your potential but while expecting others to prioritise you as a person, you welcome vicious circle of disappointment, hurt(I know it's not always disappointing, sometimes you grow more as people consider you but these considerations increase your expectations and even a small decrement in that consideration starts retardation) and ultimately loosing track of self love and self priority. When you understand these minute details and differences, you become invincible down your path to self satisfaction and being not just another pretty face.
- Saumya Bhatt
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